by Dreams End » Tue Jul 26, 2005 8:00 pm
Hey man, I have to confess something...<br><br>You tend to reply to topics I have interest in, and in order not to seem as if I'm "baiting you" I have sometimes refrained from making my own comments.<br><br>IN this case, it JUST SO HAPPENS that the very hour I consider the idea of pulling my daughter out of public school and homeschooling her, since my own work situation might allow it, I ran across this post.<br><br>The other thing that happened was that I saw your post and saw that, as you sometimes do, you went into a kind of ad hominem attack...which will naturally tend to alienate those on the receiving end...and, more importantly, redirect attention from the substance of what you are saying.<br><br>Why do I come here? This is the first place I've ever been to that ties together all the various strains of thought I've been engaged in for years...I can talk politically with group x, occultly (my post...I can make up words) with group y, UFO's with group z and on down the alphabet...only I started too low so I ran out of alphabet. I found this site at a time when I'm really struggling intellectually and spiritually to figure out what the hell is going on and what the hell is my role in it. These discussions help me. Someone once said I don't know what I think till I say it...well, there ya go.<br><br>I appreciate your praise of my debating skills. I have high verbal skills, but believe me, I've got deficits too, and I'm aware of them. Also, I am aware that verbal facility doesn't guarantee that you are right, only that you are a talk purtier. However, you seemed like someone who could respond in kind.<br><br><!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>But I'd like to see you hold your own in, say a sophisticated Marxist discussion board. I don't doubt you'd do well, but you might not be so sure of yourself if you didn't have the "little people" cheering you on from the sidelines<hr></blockquote><!--EZCODE QUOTE END--><br><br>As for participating in a marxist web debate of some kind...you are right. I haven't read Marx in detail since 1985...I'd get my ass kicked, if you want to think of it in those terms...though I suppose since I don't see the world entirely in Marxist terms, maybe those boards aren't a good place for me. And I'm not sure who the "little people are". We had one other debate...about paganism and the fact that someone named "Avalon' (get it, AVALON) got pissed at your description of Starhawk is to be expected. You'll just have to deal with that...that's not my doing. The only other remark I remember is how the discussion had "degenerated" into personal attacks...and I think that's how you come off. Sometimes. Actually, you really are either intentionally or indadvertently downplaying your own rhetorical skills. Your last post on that site was very good. , even if I didn't agree with all of it.<br><br><!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr><br>I have a lot to contribute to this discussion board, <hr></blockquote><!--EZCODE QUOTE END--><br><br>Yep. I have some advice. Keep starting your own threads and responding substantively to those of others'. You have a way of phrasing things that I think people might find rather much like personal attacks...the tone is sort of "how big an idiot do you have to be to believe this?" I don't know if that's your intent, but that's how it comes off.<br><br><br><!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr><br>What is this, you demand high-society politeness? Instead of driving me away for my generalizations and accusations on the level I'm working on, why don't you work on driving away the bad meme-spreaders like, um, the little Jew thing going on, or, um the political quietism spread by the influence of new-age thinking?<hr></blockquote><!--EZCODE QUOTE END--><br><br>I like that people on this site criticize IDEAS and not the writer of the idea. And politeness isn't really a horrible thing...especially in written format where tone of voice can't contribute. And you can and should feel welcome to attack those ideas you don't like...no one is trying to drive you away. <br><br><!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>I may be a less-sophisticated debater than you, but I know it's more real compared to the "where" that you're defending (although I get the feeling, maybe wrong, that the "where" you are defending is not really the "where" where you are at - and that 's why I get off calling you a sophist<hr></blockquote><!--EZCODE QUOTE END--><br><br>I admitted I'm not a pagan...there were other issues I was working through that led me to start that thread. However, my wife is a pagan, and I happen to love my wife, so...you know....<br><br>And I think I'd like to suggest that another thing you refrain from is speculating on the lives of posters. It's pretty consistent for you. Someone says something you don't agree with, then you spell out what you assume their background and situation is, in the negative, of course. Well, you were sort of right with me, but with robertreed the cabby...well, I think you ended up looking a little foolish there. <br><br><!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>Your reversion to accusing me of sectarianism and equating me w/ the RCP-types is way off base.<hr></blockquote><!--EZCODE QUOTE END--><br><br>Yep, doesn't feel good when people make assumptions about you, does it. For what it's worth, I apologize. I was not attempting to equate you to the RCP , only to say that I've been around left organizing a bit and that just because someone uses the rhetoric you use doesn't mean they are more "authentically" concerned about the working class. I also am consistently surprised that someone with such a Marxist orientation is interested in "parapolitics." This makes you interesting to me. <br><br>We now return you to your regularly scheduled program.<br><br> <p></p><i></i>