by bvonahsen » Mon Aug 07, 2006 2:55 pm
<!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr>You're a star was fav phrase of perps I had unwilling asociation with so I read no further<hr></blockquote><!--EZCODE QUOTE END--><br><br>This man is not your abuser and never would be. But that's your choice. Life is a series of choices, your abuser is suffering from the choices he made. There is no reason for you to suffer from his choices also. You are free to make your own, different and new choices, or not. It's up to you.<br><br><!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr><!--EZCODE ITALIC START--><em>In ordinary life, which has become extraordinarily complex, we make mistakes and take wrong turning which waste large amounts of time, energy and money and which cause great frustration. Just look at the complexes and vices which arise from human uncertainty and ignorance. we make a wrong move that causes ourselves and others enormous hardship. from these there arises other pernicious quandaries which beset us - guilt, self-recrimination, hostility, frustration and regret, etc,. Or, because we think we are right we contravene the space or boundaries of another person who then becomes an enemy instead of a friend. Is this not the familiar pattern of life?<br><br>We are prevented from reaching our own goals and excellence when we make these kinds of detours. Since we constantly make decisions which are so important for our lives and for our responsibilities towards others, it becomes essential to get proper guidance. That guidance ultimately comes from ourselves and not from others. Our words are no meant to spur you to give yet more power away to others. They are meant to return you to psychic sovereignty, to the oracle within that has all the answers.</em><!--EZCODE ITALIC END--><hr></blockquote><!--EZCODE QUOTE END--><br><br>Sounds like non "yuck" to me, that's what I take from it. Others see and take differently.<br><br>And of course he wants money, kind of a lot if you ask me. That raises flags in my mind, but I suppose he has to eat like anyone and this is his living. The advice on it's face seems good to me. <br><br>Take what you need and leave the rest. <p></p><i></i>