by AlicetheCurious » Sun May 21, 2006 8:49 am
Hava, 4911, you are so right.<br><br>But in all fairness, we have to look at WHY heroes are usually left alone to face the shitstorm...<br><br>Because ideology and politics are not the kind of bonds that make people stand up -- and even die, if necessary, for each other. As you've said, Hava, they (and we) are human. And the kind of things that bring humans together to form a powerful movement are based on interpersonal connections, not ideas.<br><br>Think of this: until quite recently, most people lived among those who have known each other since birth, in a close-knit community, where if you're sick people come to visit you, where if you're bereaved they know how to support you with the time-tested traditions and rituals, where it's easy for you to find someone you trust to care for your kids, where you have shared memories and the security of a history together, etc., etc.<br><br>These are all things that have been taken for granted throughout most of human history, but that are becoming increasingly rare. I don't romanticize the "old ways", but those things that were good, also promoted a sense of solidarity.<br><br>Now, we're down to the bare-bones nuclear family. Actually, in more "advanced" societies, many people live by themselves and for themselves only. Even friendships are disposable, with people moving from place to place in search of a living. <br><br>Now, with all the pressures to survive, to protect and raise one's children, increasingly among strangers, it's usually too much to ask the average joe to stick his neck out for someone he barely knows. Perhaps even so, many would take the plunge, but what would happen to their children? What would happen to their elderly parents, etc.? <br><br>(BTW, this reminds me of a special that was aired on a satellite tv show for International Women's Day, where four elderly women, lifelong friends and lifelong activists/militants, were profiled. One was a Copt/communist, one was an activist for peasant rights/widow of a guerilla who had fought against the Israelis in 1948 [no offence, Hava], one was an aristocratic liberal democrat, and one was a Muslim fundamentalist. <br><br>These women have been friends for more than 50 years, all have been arrested repeatedly and all have served time in prison. But when they were questioned on the basis for their friendship despite their ideological and personality differences, the answers were very interesting. "I feel more connected to them than with many people I agree with politically," one said. "They make me laugh," said another; "When I was in prison, I was never in doubt that, for example, my children were being very well cared for, we have each other's back," was another, and "They visited my mother every day and kept her spirits up". All the answers were like this, nothing about the rightness of the Cause, nor about the injustice with which they were persecuted. It was all about trust, and love and interdependence.)<br><br>At to this, that most of the time, the sacrifice is in vain, as over and over again we've all watched anonymous demonstrators beaten, or dragged off to be tortured, or even just ridiculed and put on Someone's "list".<br><br>So, to sum up, solidarity emerges from interpersonal relationships, trust and affection, precisely those ties that are most endangered in our globalized, corporate world. Very insidious, and very effective. If I were a conspiracy theorist, I'd think that was part of the Plan all along... <p></p><i></i>