Searcher08 » Sun Jul 21, 2013 11:47 am wrote:I'm a bit uncomfortable that a one off poll on asking for a reconsideration regarding 'Jeff and Mods' permanent banning decision is getting turned into a 'Common Board Law' precident for the whole future of R.I.
If Jeff + Mods wants to do that, fine but I myself have no legal thinking background.
If there is going to be a addition to the Posting Guidelines, WR's
"Let's be excellent with each other"
resonates with me much more than codification
c2w? - I need to register that I disagree *completely* with your assessment.
I know. I respect that. And I hope you know that I don't want or intend to cause you or anyone here any distress.
I'm really being as honest and straightforward as I can be when I say I'd be grateful to be shown that I was wrong, if I am. Because for better or worse, my best understanding of that thread really is:
The OP was very strongly and uncompromisingly challenged by the people who found it objectionable from start to finish, for seventy-plus pages.
There were numerous explicit suggestions that the people on one side of the conflict shouldn't be allowed to express their views.
That made it first problematic (and eventually impossible) to continue the discussion.
But with the arguable exception of MiB -- who was nearly universally rebuked for it, as well as promptly and repeatedly warned to stop by the mods -- those suggestions didn't come from the pro-OP posters (who were -- in fact -- in the minority).
AD's tenacity in defending a position he believes to be righteous can sometimes be maddening. But as I said of Canadian_watcher: Having the courage of your convictions is not an easy quality for those who possess it or for others.
However, he didn't initiate the personal part of the conflict in any way other than that.
And I'd not only defend Canadian_watcher for the same thing under the same circumstances, I've actually done exactly that. (Not that she needed it. But that would have been "including on that very thread," if she had, as far as MiB goes.)
I'd also oppose AD (and, in fact, anyone) who I saw making it that much of a point to single out the posters he/she disagreed with by name as personally contemptible and/or exclusively responsible for any conflict that (in reality) had both the usual two or more sides and the usual distribution of imperfect behavior. FWIW.
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^^To the best of my belief, I could easily and abundantly support each of those statements with direct evidence that fairly represented the tone and substance of the thread without leaving anything out.
So if you disagree with that completely, please tell me. It would mean I have such serious issues with basic reality-testing that I can't afford not to know it.
I hope it's clear that I'm not arguing against Canadian_watcher, just because I'm not too shy to say I think she was in the wrong. She sure wouldn't be, if it was me. That's actually one of the things I like about her. She completely fucking disagrees with me. She finds my views -- and sometimes me -- repellent. And the reason I know that is that she replies to me.
I could do with less of the personal stuff. But I love her for for the other part of it.
I'm in favor of more speech, not less, always. Basically. But those rules have to be the same for everyone, or there's no point in having them.