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Misogyny thread

Posted:
Wed Apr 27, 2011 11:53 am
by Peregrine
Have I done something wrong here in this thread? I've piped up a couple of times in that thread nicely asking the namecalling to stop & I'm getting pounced on. What gives?

Posted:
Wed Apr 27, 2011 12:29 pm
by Peregrine
seriously, I wonder what the heck I'm doing here. I have to walk away from this for a bit & get some perspective, I'm thoroughly frustrated. Jeff, I like being a mod here but wonder if I am lacking the time for it, I feel like I'm not on top of things at the moment. I'll be back a little later today but I'm frustrated to the point of tears, man. Not just this but other outside contributing factors.
Re: Misogyny thread

Posted:
Wed Apr 27, 2011 1:25 pm
by barracuda
Peregrine, it's not you. Every single person who raises their head in that thread gets jumped on. It seems to me that canadian_watcher has a penchant for hasty interpretations of the comments there, along with a quickness to blame that seems to be working against her cause even though her heart is in the right place. There's so much misplaced anger, it becomes impossible to moderate, especially when folks like brekin come in specifically to aggravate the situation.
Oh well. It takes a grain of sand to make a pearl, I guess.

Posted:
Wed Apr 27, 2011 8:22 pm
by Peregrine
I've not gone back in there since commenting on wakeup's dumb comment about removing men from the equation. I completely understand C_w's frustration with both him & brekin. I find it's a waste of my energy trying to reason with blokes that don't get it. Oy. gonna peek back in....
Re: Misogyny thread

Posted:
Thu Apr 28, 2011 1:03 pm
by Peregrine
As per your report on page 77 of the thread, not sure what the deal was there, either. Just quietly following & will pipe up when I see something come up. That is all.


Posted:
Thu Apr 28, 2011 1:24 pm
by Peregrine
the "crszed women" & "sado sista" comments were innapropriate if directed at C_w. I'm curious to know what hava meant by them.
Re: Misogyny thread

Posted:
Thu Apr 28, 2011 3:59 pm
by barracuda
For everyone's information, I've had it with brekin, and am on the verge of suspending him for trolling the thread. Finished. Don't care.

Posted:
Thu Apr 28, 2011 9:24 pm
by Peregrine
I hear ya. I'm a little late in the game because I'm hanging out with my kid & taking lasagna I made for dinner to friends for lunch. Yum. I was more than a little emotional yesterday & had to step away. I totally feel both C_w & Willow's anger at this but I find I can't waste my energies on fellas who can't be bothered. And nice one on you there, mister fish, on calling him out. You worded things better than I would have.

Re: Misogyny thread

Posted:
Thu Apr 28, 2011 11:11 pm
by barracuda
Okay, after the double post there, I gave brekin a week. Didn't really want to, but I don't see any way else to stem the tide of bullshit.
Re: Misogyny thread

Posted:
Fri May 20, 2011 10:42 am
by barracuda
I suspended praeclarus late last night pending approval. I'm not committed to any specific time period, but I find it hard to believe he's posting here in good faith.
The Mis. thread was trolled to death last night by praeclarus and seemslikeadream. I came close to locking it, honestly.
Re: Misogyny thread

Posted:
Fri May 20, 2011 1:56 pm
by Jeff
Thanks for that. Praeclarus just sat out for a week, so anyone who comes back from a suspension and promptly trolls has earned a permanent vacation.
Re: Misogyny thread

Posted:
Fri May 27, 2011 11:07 pm
by barracuda
Just thought I'd go and jinx the whole thing up by noticing that today the Misogyny thread passed to PAGE TWO of General Discussion for the first time since March.
There is no dancing banana large enough.
Re: Misogyny thread

Posted:
Sat May 28, 2011 12:45 am
by Jeff
The last thing the misogyny thread needs is a large dancing banana.