I think that is nonsense. Go to the Lounge.
Why do you Capitalise G roups?
By including the word 'yes' in the middle of that sentance, you imply you are agreeing with something I said, which would be 'very much like a Middle School or a High School.'
Apart from the simple fact that I did not say that.
Or anything like it.
You pulled that right out of your ass.
And I do not think that.
And THAT is an example of you making shit up. Invention.
Bollox to your Sepp-centric BS.
'Newcomer' sounds like... newcomer. You are laying on a metaphor (or in your case perhaps a 'METHAPHOR') all about a first day at school.
They do???? How did you establish that?
Carol Newquist » Wed Oct 16, 2013 5:19 pm wrote:create a hierarchy where none need exist and arrange cliques and pecking orders and all that nonsense. RI is no different. If that's what the majority here wants, then perhaps you can wall it off for good (no new members), or subject those who attempt to activate to a means test, and if they pass the test, they will be on one year probation where they will be subjected to ritualized hazing and all manner of abuse, and then after that year, like in gangland after the gang has kicked the shit out of a new initiate, you embrace the pledge as one of your own so long as said pledge doesn't challenge the Group and rock the boat.
Are you are speaking from personal experience?
If so, I feel you are conflating a bad school experience with coming to RI.
And doing a pre-emptive strike.
RI isnt actually some American Highschool.
Carol Newquist » Wed Oct 16, 2013 5:19 pm wrote:That being said, I don't know to what culture you're referring. In fact, I don't think a culture exists that could describe the entirety of this space, but if something akin to it did, it wouldn't be a static proposition.
As I said, have a look in the Lounge
Carol Newquist » Wed Oct 16, 2013 5:19 pm wrote:Ironically, let's apply your logic to this Redskins controversy. Your logic states that I should acknowledge a culture before expressing myself and by virtue of that censor my expression to meet the implicit demands of this culture....in respect and deference to it, apparently.
The statement "Ironically, lets apply your logic to X" does not make sense.
There is no basis for mapping the content of my communication with you about your attitude and behaviour in RI over to my thoughts about the OP of this thread, any more than the content of your football throwing with your son. Not relevant.
I find it amazing that you work in a corporate environment - when talking to techies step into their world, strategists step into theirs, customer service step into theirs - or do you consider these as censoring your expression??
LOL Here is an exercise you might consider - in Active Listening, a person checks their understanding of the message they received with what the person said.
S08: You, Carol, are acting like a wanker.
CN: S08, I am hearing you say that I, Carol am a God amongst men - is that accurate?
S08: No, I am saying you are acting like a wanker.
CN: I'm hearing you say you are a racist
S08: No, Carol, I am saying you are acting like a wanker.
etc etc
My logic says "I recommend refraining from being a wanker at RI whenever possible".
You are not coming into a vacuum. The distinct between respect and agreement seems to elude you. Put more directly, if I visited your home and took a dump where and when I felt like, like on your living room carpet, would it be 'trying to censor my free expression' if you suggested I use the toilet like other folks?
Carol Newquist » Wed Oct 16, 2013 5:19 pm wrote:Okay, I'm not subscribing to this logic, but if I'm reading this correctly, this protest over the name Redskins is doing the exact opposite of what you're preaching to me.
I am not 'preaching' anything to you. I am suggesting to look at your communication process since your arrival, as it suggests you are either a Meth snorter, a troll or stuck in a perceptual position that at a minimum lacks empathy for the negative effects you create.
Carol Newquist » Wed Oct 16, 2013 5:19 pm wrote:It's not considering and respecting the larger culture.....a culture that those who are proponents of this protest have asserted is a violent and racist culture. Once again, I don't subscribe to your logic....thankfully.
You cannot even state my logic, so I am at a loss to how you are subscribing to it.
You have demonstrated zero comprehension of what I am talking about, which at no point intersected the OP or the content of this thread. It was personal - about YOU - and about your communication process, which can be summarised as
1 Act like a wanker
2 Be a butthurt lolcow when called on it
3 Make all sorts of shit up about what people say, which has no relation to what they said and personally insult them.
4 Rinse Wash Repeat
You have made a very strong case that
you do not know how to make a case.