Plutonia wrote:compared2what? wrote:First of all, newsflash: There are no such jobs anywhere on earth outside of Ayn Rand novels. There never have been.
Well, actually, there is. Growing and living within communities dependent on logging, it's been a normal feature of my life. And though actual fatalities are much fewer by comparison, the ranks of injured men were legion- missing fingers from mill work, chainsaw amputees, the back injured from being crushed by rolling/falling logs etc. What stood out for me as a child were all the missing fingers, and maybe that stood out for me because my mother nearly lost three fingers working our families placer mine and that made it difficult for her to play the piano anymore.
"Is your job killing you?" was the provocative cover title of Parade Magazine (Sunday supplement to United States newspapers), 8 January 1989, which looked into the risks associated with occupations in the United States. The research quoted in the journal identified forest workers as the occupational group whose answer to this question was most likely to be "yes". The current article confirms this disturbing situation in the majority of both industrialized and developing countries throughout the world. Perhaps even more disturbing is that, despite forestry's sad occupational accident and health record, the issue is not high on the list of priorities in most countries. Although many people and organizations use the slogan "safety first"; in reality, this is not the case.
http://www.fao.org/docrep/u8520e/u8520e03.htm
I know those jobs exist, as my post clearly indicated. Baumeister shows no sign of doing so. Rather, he suggests that men compete against one another in risky jobs as part of a high-stakes game that has wins and losses. If you need a more thoroughly detailed and footnoted commentary on his text demonstrating that than I've already provided, I'd be happy to put one together for you.
compared2what? wrote:Second, and much more importantly:
By my individual lights, any person who has no problem exhuming the corpses of the men who lie buried in that Department of Labor statistic simply in order to exploit their posthumous rhetorical value as the Nameless Valiant Dead who didn't quite make it to the Crossing-the-Return-Threshold phase of the Hero's Journey has so conclusively demonstrated his cold-blooded indifference to the value of human life that he's totally and completely disqualified himself for the purposes of addressing that subject, solely on those grounds.
I mean, monomyth is very culturally compelling, and it has its legitimate rhetorical uses, no doubt. I'm not saying otherwise. But retroactively justifying the real expendability of all the real men who lost their lives doing non-lucrative, non-imaginary jobs of little mytho-narrative worth or interest before losing their identities to a Department of Labor statistic that someone who didn't give a fuck later decided to re-appropriate as a zombie-hero casualty figure is just not among them.
And that's that. It's not any more okay to advance your interests by treating dead men as if they were expendable than it is when they're living, if you think about it for a moment.
I hate that shit. And I also fear it, to be honest. Because someone who's willing to kill a dead man to score a rhetorical point is probably capable of anything, as far as I'm concerned. It doesn't really get much lower.
But this is precisely what's been done to rape victims repeated in this thread. In fact, they have been made to stand in, almost exclusively, for evidence of misogyny.
As you may recall, it was during the discussion of rape that I remarked that we were no longer talking about what constituted misogyny. That was because in my view, we were not. We were talking about rape and/or rape culture, more or less as an inadvertent consequence of the response to barracuda's post having focused solely on the one sentence in it that was not about misogyny, but rather about the culpability of male rapists.
One could argue that response was natural, given the inflammatory terms in which that sentence was written, of course. In fact, I myself would argue that it almost certainly was, at least in part and/or for some. I'm not happy about making that qualification, but unfortunately, an honest reading of the thread would compel me to. Because otherwise, I'd be at a loss to explain all the
other unprompted and unprovoked attempts to minimize, displace or otherwise deny the culpability of male rapists of women that have popped up here and there on this thread.
As (for example) when you suggested it was attributable to the media, after having straightforwardly gone directly to the heart of the matter by....Oh, right. By likening rape to suicide, without offering a single reason in support of that association as natural. And unsurprisingly so, since it isn't.
Indeed, it would be difficult for me to imagine how someone as smart as you are could go that far afield and remain serenely under the impression that she was loftily thinking about the information in front of them from the point of view of the greater good of all rather than selfishly focusing on the victims of the crime in question, if I didn't know that we were, as you said, only minimally rational creatures. But I do know that, as well as respect you for knowing it.
That's one of the reasons that you could never do something I feared and hated, even if you did something I feared and hated, although it's just one among many. For example, another, probably more operative one is that my heart just belongs to you, Plu. I like and sympathize with you. We're only minimally rational creatures, after all.
But quite apart from that, and above all other subsidiary reasons:
Sorry to be the one to do the thing that you hate and fear. But there it is.
No apologies are necessary. You didn't and couldn't do something I hate and fear, because I don't and can't hate and fear any person's sincere effort to formulate a system for redressing systematic injustices, which is quite clearly what you're doing, both first and foremost and first and last. Roy F. Baumeister, on the other hand, either (a) equally clearly is not; or (b) is too stupid to notice that he's accidentally committing acts of apparently intentional extreme intellectual dishonesty in every sentence he utters. So he's a whole other story. But never mind that for now.
I don't and can't hate and fear you, your words, or your conduct. But I can and do disagree with you, of course. And as it happens, I also object to something you wrote that I might hate and fear if if had been written by a person whose intention was to befog the minds of genuinely-justice-seeking others by emotionally manipulating their systematically ingrained cultural reflexes in a way that distorted their perception of the things that mattered most to them. But it wasn't! It was written by you! Yay.
More on that in a bit.
yr. pal, as felt on this side of the equation.