I had reconnected with him several months ago by e-mail and phone, and I knew that his wife was heavily into just about all of the new age "spirituality" stuff. Ironically, after giving him a cursory explanation of my thoughts on 9/11, peak oil, the economy, etc., he told me that his wife, not he, was more in tune with that kind of conspiracy thinking. He didn't buy any of it, but I knew all it would take were some articles, web sites, and documentaries.
So I sent him a rather large package of information, including a handful of DVDs, all of which he seemed interested in learning more about. I didn't hear back until just a few days ago, and here's what he wrote (emphasis mine):
I want to thank you again for sending those videos and articles and genuine concern. I haven't as yet viewed any more of the videos. I've actually gone in the opposite direction and have chosen to put my mind toward creating a reality that doesn't involve these things and placing my energies on envisioning a planet where love and kindness prevails. I've been thinking more about what I wish to dwell on and the philosophy that what we focus on actually generates what we experience. In doing so I have found my life to be generally lighter, more joyous, and richer in meaningful and rewarding experiences. This might strike you as just another form of denial. I don't deny that great injustices are occuring all the time. I also recognize that concerted action toward rectifying these horrors, getting the word out there etc, such as what you are doing, is necessary and heroic. I'm finding that with me, at least for now, my time is best spent generating warmth and kindness and love from my being with everyone.
I cringe every time I read his words. It's like he's been body-snatched by the exact new age mindfuck doctrine described in the article at the top of this thread. I'm angered, frustrated, and upset that he has chosen this direction, and it almost leaves me speechless, but I did manage a "friendly" reply:
Thanks for your e-mail. I understand your perspective on wanting to avoid all the truthiness out there. It really is overwhelming, which of course is what it is intended to be. That said, one of my favorite quotes, which I'm trying to live by myself, is: “We must become the change we want to see.” -- Mahatma Gandhi
For me, however, I can't become that change without knowing what the correct choices are, and that means looking at the dark side as well as the light in order to find a deeper understanding. One thing that's a big lesson for me in all of this is that the dark side has successfully infiltrated the light, so even the word "love" isn't always what it appears to be. An obvious example of topsy turvy reality is George W. himself. If we took everything he said at face value, it would sound downright noble, and certainly ethical.
I ended the e-mail there simply because I couldn't figure out anything else to say.
What I really felt like saying was "OH MY FUCKING GOD -- YOU NEED HELP."
