What constitutes Misogyny?

[seemslikeadream]

Well, slad, I deleted it because I was trying hard not to be a dick. I realise what a rare occurrance that comprises (me trying not to be a dick), but it was a hasty remark from which I beat a hasty retreat. Apologies, all.

and look at what all this has done to you....I have never ever seen you ever be a dick to anyone, I tell you this is just bringing out the worst in everyone, even you

[barracuda]

Well, I was actually being a dick to Nordic in the deleted post, and I think he and I would find common ground on the understanding that I have been a dick to him many times in the past, sometimes with cause, sometimes not so much.

[Canadian_watcher]

you know I didn't even catch that vid I didn't know it was about me.


BUT NOW DO YOU SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING HERE?

yes, I see what's happening here. The people who sympathize with women are being treated like they are scum - as per usual in the big bad world outside of RI. We won't go back into the corner, and it's causing division. But we aren't the bad guys, SLAD.

I miss Maddy,

she left because she didn't get enough support - she left because of the assholes that are still being assholes. our options here are only to leave, go back into the corner, or become one of them.

I see which one you've chosen, and it isn't a helpful position.

[seemslikeadream]

you know I didn't even catch that vid I didn't know it was about me.


BUT NOW DO YOU SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING HERE?

yes, I see what's happening here. The people who sympathize with women are being treated like they are scum - as per usual in the big bad world outside of RI. We won't go back into the corner, and it's causing division. But we aren't the bad guys, SLAD.

I miss Maddy,

she left because she didn't get enough support - she left because of the assholes that are still being assholes. our options here are only to leave, go back into the corner, or become one of them.

I see which one you've chosen, and it isn't a helpful position.

Why in the fuck should I be helpful to you?


all you do is create misunderstandings

you hold the record for misunderstandings

I sympathize with women just not the way you want me to

[Canadian_watcher]

Why in the fuck should I be helpful to you?


all you do is create misunderstandings

really? Are you aware that there is a poster who left because of you?
She PM'd me about it very distraught before she left. That's all I'm going to say about it.

[seemslikeadream]

Why in the fuck should I be helpful to you?


all you do is create misunderstandings

really? Are you aware that there is a poster who left because of you?
She PM'd me about it very distraught before she left. That's all I'm going to say about it.

BULLSHIT

[Canadian_watcher]

Why in the fuck should I be helpful to you?


all you do is create misunderstandings

really? Are you aware that there is a poster who left because of you?
She PM'd me about it very distraught before she left. That's all I'm going to say about it.

BULLSHIT

Believe what you want to believe. That's all anyone does, anyway.

[seemslikeadream]

Why in the fuck should I be helpful to you?


all you do is create misunderstandings

really? Are you aware that there is a poster who left because of you?
She PM'd me about it very distraught before she left. That's all I'm going to say about it.

BULLSHIT

Believe what you want to believe. That's all anyone does, anyway.

oh sure loved Steven but hated me so much she had to leave? Give me a fuckin' break

[Canadian_watcher]

Why in the fuck should I be helpful to you?


all you do is create misunderstandings

really? Are you aware that there is a poster who left because of you?
She PM'd me about it very distraught before she left. That's all I'm going to say about it.

BULLSHIT

Believe what you want to believe. That's all anyone does, anyway.

oh sure loved Steven but hated me so much she had to leave? Give me a fuckin' break

loved Stephen???? I have no idea how she felt about him or even if she ever read his posts. No idea.
But I do know that she was very upset at you for MISUNDERSTANDING her and subsequently attacking her.

You can keep aiming vitriol my way though, because I'm made of steel now.

[seemslikeadream]

Why in the fuck should I be helpful to you?


all you do is create misunderstandings

really? Are you aware that there is a poster who left because of you?
She PM'd me about it very distraught before she left. That's all I'm going to say about it.

BULLSHIT

Believe what you want to believe. That's all anyone does, anyway.

oh sure loved Steven but hated me so much she had to leave? Give me a fuckin' break

loved Stephen???? I have no idea how she felt about him or even if she ever read his posts. No idea.
But I do know that she was very upset at you for MISUNDERSTANDING her and subsequently attacking her.

You can keep aiming vitriol my way though, because I'm made of steel now.

put up or shut up, I want to see a link

[barracuda]

I can't tell anymore... are we on topic?

Everyone please try and keep your temper. Perhaps some clearing of the air might occur.

*pulls back a bloody stump*

[compared2what?]

you know I didn't even catch that vid I didn't know it was about me.


BUT NOW DO YOU SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING HERE?

All the fuckin' misunderstandings, all the fuckin' people that have left, all the fuckin' people that are pissed and not posting any longer ....I have NEVER EVER seen this kinda crap happen here


And now you misunderstand me because of a post by someone who deleted the whole fuckin thing author and all, what a dirty trick to play on me

brainpanhandler saw it also so I know I just wasn't seeing things

I miss Maddy, I miss hava1 already and I miss the good will that was always the best part of this place.

I have a different perspective on it than you do, but of course I understand how you feel. The difference arises only from my having had a different experience of this place than you have.

I'm not so sure I understand your thinking, though. Maddy left because of opposition (much like yours) to this thread, didn't she? I confess that I didn't really grasp why hava1 was leaving exactly. But whatever, I'm okay with that, if you are. I don't even understand my own thinking sometimes. And I know I'm far from alone on that one, at least.

So let's return to less shaky ground. I understand your feelings. And sympathize with them, even. FWIW, you still have my good will. As does anyone who wants it. (Who isn't being really cruel to S08 or somebody else for no reason. Which you weren't, it turns out. But even if you had been being, you would only have lost it briefly.)

So there's some hope there, right?

My apologeez, again.

[Canadian_watcher]

SLAD, I'm not giving you a link. She wanted to remain private. She was very hurt. I don't give a shit if you don't believe me.

Sorry 'cuda, but I had to make an answer. I'll drop it now.

[barracuda]

I don't mind if you guys hash it out. Hash it the fuck out. But please try and aim to resolve the thing, and end at a higher place than you started.

[seemslikeadream]

SLAD, I'm not giving you a link. She wanted to remain private. She was very hurt. I don't give a shit if you don't believe me.

Sorry 'cuda, but I had to make an answer. I'll drop it now.

I'm not dropping it YOU find where I pissed on someone and she left because of it. You brought it up and whatever the exchange was it was public and I want to see it... or else I will go hunting for it, look at you breaking someone's trust by bringing it up, now you will answer for it