Hi barracuda-
Your points are well-taken and they are essentially constructive. So thanks.
Here's the rub, from my perspective: it has been a few years since my first encounters with c2w and it was all the way back then that my opinion diverged from her's regarding psychiatric medications. I felt that I was being accused of either being a closet Scientologist, or at best of being "soft on Scientology". Neither is true and I expressed this clearly, but she did not take what I said seriously, and it did not end the problem.I do have hurt feelings about this and I am definitely pissed off about it.
Here's where we get to the part where you diagnose me as "passive-aggressive": I truly hate injustice and I felt like what has been done to me and many others (rhetorically) regarding criticism of Psychiatry, was and is unjust. Sometimes this is merely annoying, sometimes it really makes me angry, as I consider it a "dirty trick". However,
I don't want to give myself permission to just go off and start throwing gasoline on the fire. Neither do I want to simply go away when something I consider "bad" has been done- this may give the other person exactly what they desire- the opportunity to dominate the discourse with their opinions seemingly unrefuted.
So I persist- definitely hot under the collar, but definitely trying to keep a grip on my emotions. That's the best way of responding that I can figure out.
I started off on this thread by posting an article from Sascha which I think showed an articulate and intelligent Mad Liberation voice which. while deeply critical of mainstream psychiatric institutions , also supports an integrative approach wherein psychiatric drugs are an option and professionals can be partners with the people they are supposed to serve. I followed this with an article from a psychologist who is very critical of certain aspects of mainstream psychiatry but who strongly rejects the notion that such criticism is indistinguishable from Scientology's anti-Paychiatry line.
My perspective is that this general view- that Scientology and Mad Lib can be separated and that integrative approaches really are possible- has been essentially ignored by c2w and that she blithely continues on with her same line and I do find that annoying. And it
is my considered opinion that c2w did and does conflate legitimate criticism of the mainstream psychiatric paradigm with the Scientology cult line. Sorry, but this is what I see happening, even here on this thread. I don't think it has to be an
ad Hominem to say so.
Speaking of
ad Hominems,
nothing prepared me for this, on page 8 :
AD and undead --
You're both liars and trolls, as well as all-around deceptive, dishonest -- and possibly even dangerously malicious but definitely bone-ignorant -- assholes. Go fuck yourselves.
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I'm more than happy to get the banning stick for saying that. Indeed, I totally deserve it, and -- in fact -- won't accept anything less. So ban me please. I mean, I guess that I could step it up a few more notches if that's what it took to clear the banning bar. But I'd really, really rather not.
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Bye (almost) everybody else! Much love!
c2w
Feel free to go back to that lovely quote and to look back at what preceded it and tell me if you think it was justified. It was a provocative post, and it did exactly what i imagine it was intended to do: it aroused deep emotions for me. I was really hurt and angry. This shouldn't be surprising and I don't think that this was right don't think that I had done the same first.
What do you think, barracuda? Because the facts are that my hurt was compounded when I saw this response from you, the supposed moderator:
We don't ban people for occasional breaches of etiquette and board rules, compared. If that were the case, half the board would be gone. We simply request that you generally observe the posting guidelines regarding obscenity.
Since this was the was the extent of your response, it sure seemed to me like you were in fact condoning her behavior and that I could not count on fair and impartial moderation here. Then add to that the contrast with this next post from you here:
undead wrote: William Shakespeare wrote:
The lady doth protest too much, methinks.
Why don't you just ban yourself, instead of having a tantrum. The admins can delete your account if you ask them. Lashing out in this way is very childish. It's also silly to call other people trolls when you're acting like that. Rather than whining and flailing about, you can just ignore the people who you don't like. Hell, you can ignore this thread entirely, in the same way I am going to ignore you.
barracuda wrote:
Undead, as much as I'm sure we all appreciate your advice regarding the abilities of the admin in this regard, it doesn't seem to be adding much to the content of the thread beyond bile.
compared2what? had, in fact, asked that her account be closed after her last post on this thread, but we basically ignored that request, seeing as we view her as a highly-valued member of this forum.
However, should you have needs of your own along those lines, we might find our way clear to helping you out. Lemme know.
This completely dashed my hopes that I could count on fair and impartial moderation here.
So I was really, really upset then. I was however trying not to let my upset rule things and so I continued to post, with no interest whatsoever in engaging directly with c2w. Your personal opinion: "
it's more than exceedingly obvious that c2w's position on the topic is carefully considered, highly informed, and particularly fact-filled and persuasive", seems to have gotten in your way of being a moderator in this case and providing the container which we need in order to help keep things in bounds. Besides, I think you are friends with her- does this influence your behavior?
This is my opinion and I mean no particular offense by saying it, barracuda, but what do you think of that?