The lie transforms the brain.
I think that might explain it more than anything else.
Good responses, everyone.
Mac, I wish you were able to post more!
I just keep thinking of how much money I would give away if I were a billionaire. Rush Limbaugh owns six Maybachs. Or is it ten? How dare he complain about unemployment compensation, when it's a payment from an INSURANCE program that the employee and the employer pays into?
It's like claiming that a car insurance company is giving you "welfare" when your car gets damaged and they pay for it.
What a fucking douchebag. Why anyone listens to that guy is so bizarre to me, it's a sign of serious mental derangement. My stepmom thinks of him like a family member, it's just weird as all hell.
re: the comments about boys. As a father, this is really important to me, the idea of, well, being a good father and teaching my son to be a man. It's really the most important thing in my life. I've seen other boys who crave adult male companionship and guidance, and it breaks my heart.
Boys can easily, I think, slip into a mode where they think that being strong and physical is the way to deal with everything. My son was just watching a show called "Adventure Time" and we had to make him stop, because in the show there's a boy named Finn who basically physically battles his way out of every situation, throwing himself headlong at any number and types of "bad guys". It's a boy fantasy, in a way, the idea of beating up bad guys, it's why superheroes are so popular at the same age. But we could see it start to affect our son in other ways, thinking he could use his superior size and strength (and my son is by far the biggest and strongest in his class) to get what he wanted. He wasn't turning into a bully, he's far too sweet and gentle for that, but this Finn character was starting to go to his head. We called him on it and explained why he couldn't watch the show any more, and why it was a bad influence on him. He actually understood, then he was mad at the people who made the show, and the network who shows it -- "why do they put on a show that's bad for you?" He wants justice. Always.
My son has a big heart. He's generous (more than I was at his age) and he's sweet, but he also shows a real natural desire to be "tough" and powerful. Feeding both of those needs, and educating him accordingly, is really interesting. Probably for another thread.
But I think what you were talking about, Mac, goes through generations, like that tsunami went through that farmland. Somebody, at some point, has to realize that what their father taught them was wrong. That's kind of difficult. In fact, the only people I know who feel that way about their fathers had absolute monsters for fathers.
Anyway ...... rambling .....
It is frustrating to realize that somewhere, dads MUST be teaching their sons it's okay to steal, cheat, and dominate the weaker.
"He who wounds the ecosphere literally wounds God" -- Philip K. Dick