From
http://friendlyatheist.com/category/richard-wade/07.04.11
Ask Richard: Atheist Worries She’ll Go Back to Religion
I thought this was interesting as means of teasing out religion vs faith
Richard (the friendly atheist) replied
Your former religion gave you emotional and social benefits:
(my comments are after Richard's in
bold It reassured you that death is not the end of you.Well, no death isnt. I find the way evidence of life after death is dealt with is somewhat
less than... rigourous.
It reassured you that a parent figure loves you and is protecting you.My only experience of this is my (large) extended family - spirituality of people in their 80s and 90s seems quite different from those in their 70s. Often conversation is about longing to rejoin the ones who have already passed over rather than a spiritual authority figure
It gave you a sense of meaning or purpose.An external organising framework can be very useful for dealing with complexity. There was a saying around Landmark - if you want your life to really turn out - take on something really huge and worthwhile and impossible
Consciously CHOOSING to follow an external framework for utility is often very effective.
It made you feel important both in the cosmos and in your community.Hmm I would tend to think that this cuts both ways. Most atheists I have met or been exposed to seem to be more arrogant and tend to look down on , patronise or sneer a lot and are every bit as reactive as people of faith to having their foundations or assumptions challenged.
It gave you guidelines to follow. Many things were already decided for you.This sounds as if guidelines are bad things, which is nonsense. A pre-flight checklist is enables a lot to be processed and increases the effectiveness of a process.
It gave you easy, pat answers for tough questions and complex dilemmas.I was asked to join a Facebook page that said "1,000,000 people believe Darwin was right about evolution". I would say that what is required is open-mindedness to information which contradicts your beliefs.
For me a truly demonic statement from the "Critical Thinking Church" is
"Extraordinary claims require extraordinary proof"
NO THEY FUCKING DO NOT. THEY REQUIRE PROOF.
"Im sorry Mr Godel, your Incompleteness Theorem is claiming something EXTRAORDINARY and we dont think your proof is frankly, EXTRAORDINARY ENOUGH. SORRY"The people I really respect are those who look for novelty in information and do not lock it in a drawer.
It gave you external forgiveness for your screw-ups.This is an interesting one - because there is a force of transformation - the ability to experience that you can control the context of your life, even if you have very little control of the content - a la Shawshank Redemption
It gave you the comfort and confidence of being in the majority.There is the snobbishness of the majority... and the trendiness of being in the minority.
It gave you social approval and affirmation.The most self-congradulatory, high-fiving social group, bar none, I have ever seen is JREF. Being in a group having a sneer at another.
It gave you a group you could draw upon for practical help.This is true - I would say there is a big cultural element here eg how the Japanese responded in Sendai was very different to how Thais responded after the Sumatra earthquake.
It gave you fun things to do with people who were like you.This I think is true, important and a deep human need IMHO