Nordic wrote:I just had an interesting experience with a pair of Doctors, both trying to figure out what was wrong with my son, who had been suffering for over three weeks.
One of them sucked, was condescending to us, refused to do any real tests, and was convinced that she knew what was wrong.
The other one looked at the situation with an open mind, ran a bunch of tests, figured out within 24 hours what was wrong with him and prescribed a very low-cost and simple method to fix what was wrong with him. Within about 12 hours, my son was all better.
The first one literally could have resulted in my son being gravely ill or worse. She was convinced she knew what was wrong, and she was just absolutely fucking wrong and had quite the attitude when I tried to suggest (very diplomatically I might add) that what she was saying didn't seem to make sense. I'm really pretty pissed at her.
I've had pretty good luck with doctors lately. For myself. Other people I'm close to, not as much. One person has had some real bad luck (not my son).
Luck of the draw for the most part.
However I will have to say that maybe it's the person I'm close to that has these issues, but psych doctors in my experience are almost universally fucked up. We've had those conversations here before, I don't want to start a repeat of those conversations, although this thread could easily veer that direction, since it's basically based on that same subject. In my experience, psych doctors (and maybe I'd have better luck if I was trying to find one for myself) are about 85% drug-pushing shams. I mean HOW can someone responsibly not do talk therapy???? But no, they're all into the meds. No talk! It's unreal. They're leading millions of people into serious drug addictions and lives that are destroyed by basically having people treat themselves as guinea pigs, throwing all the meds at the wall and seeing what sticks. It's outrageous, just absolutely fucking outrageous, and psychiatrists should simply not be ALLOWED to do ONLY drug therapy on their patients.
Talk therapy takes too long, is too expensive, and its outcomes too uncertain. There is a sense in the psychiatry profession that it really "doesn't work" (of course the counseling profession thinks otherwise). My own personal opinion -
it's an opinion, and it's not professional since I have little expertise in psychiatry - is that talk therapy often doesn't work because its models are usually inherently wrong, it doesn't address the spiritual dimension of life (or at least not quickly enough), by which I mean questions of meaning and relatedness, which our society with its reductionism steadfastly denies. On the other hand, psychopharmaceuticals are completely consistent with reductionist approaches, they demonstrably "work" (in quickly generating measurable changes in behavior) and so there you have our system.
My fundamental complaint about pharmaceutical use in the US is exactly the issue of addiction.
All drugs for chronic conditions are addictive. It is necessarily so because your body acts to achieve homeostasis, and so your body will eventually adjust to whatever regular inputs it is receiving. Physical systems are energy-minimizing entities, so that if a certain sub-system is functioning by acquisition of external resources, no extra energy will be expended to achieve the same result by other means. That's fine if your systems are so perturbed that there is no other way to "get them back" to where they should be, but for systems that are only slightly off, a regimen of a certain drug will produce unnecessary dependency. And the problem I have with dependency is that, in the US, it's a Faustian bargain. How can you be sure that you will continue to have the insurance necessary to keep buying the drugs? The anxiety creates economic dependency in other areas, and It becomes like heroin, debasing the spirit so that you are forced to do things you would otherwise never do.
Personally, I'd rather have a shorter life with full autonomy than a longer life beholden to large, malevolent systems.