Canadian_watcher wrote:hold on a sec! Nordic, it's never nice to be the one whose argument gets picked to pieces especially when the post was something that I'm sure you felt was gentle and unimpeachable. BUT... she has some points that bear consideration.
Mostly I agree with her that you were pretty glib making one of your points. Here I go putting words in other people's mouths again, but correct me if I got this wrong. You seemed to say "Hey! I like black people! In fact I like black people more than black people like each other!"
Did I type 'black people?' I meant women. (aside: I am not comparing the struggles of race to those of gender, I am replacing the word to show how awful it sounds when applied to another group) Not to mention that I think your premise is wrong in the first place. I know lots of women that like women. This whole 'women naturally hate each other due to biological competitiveness' thing is almost entirely mythological.
And I can see how your response of "No." to her insightful post would be taken as dismissive and kind of, in a way, illustrative of her points in the first place.
EDIT: barracuda and I agree.
Edit 2: this is not coming from a place of hostility.. not from me. Try not to get your back up.
Funny that. I just logged in to make that exact point. And there you made it for me. (the racism aspect that is)
The thing I think with racism and I have long made this point in life, when dealing with racists/ism: is that many white people believe they're not racist because they feel connections with Oprah Winfrey, Montel, Obama and here in Seattle, Steve Pool etc. They may have no real-world contact with black people, but they firmly believe that because these figures are acceptable to see, watch and like on the toob, that means every time they see a black person at the store, they notice that they are black first and then one more step after that: well, would you look at that, I ain't no racist after all. Problem is, is it's so cerebral. For instance, when it comes to referring to a person who may be black, I never say "oh, it's that black guy over there". I try for other characteristics: "The tall guy in the red shirt." Even though his most noticeable characteristic is his skin color.
However, when it comes to a group consisting of men and women in my line of work, for instance, it's "that goes to the lady and the man gets the X".
More later, I gotta go walk a dog that I forgot I was watching and just remembered!
Ooops!