Wombaticus Rex » Thu Jan 29, 2015 5:07 pm wrote:Actually, I'm really fond of "not responding" as a strategy to reduce conflict on RI.
You always have the choice to break the loop.
You know what AD thinks.
You know he won't change.
You know you can, though.
I am going to add my one and a half cents here and say that not responding is definitely my preferred strategy towards the trio with which I had conflict in the past: slad, Searcher and slim. I profoundly disagreed with them about Gilad Atzmon and we had it out at length. I learned a lot about new topics in the process but I wouldn't say any participant's thinking was fundamentally changed through the fight itself- at least not as far as I saw. So I'm over that now- and am in the "ignore" mode towards them, which I think is really for the best.
The truth is, when I post these days, I'm not really thinking of these three in particular at all, even if and when the material contradicts some deeply held beliefs. I'm basically over that. It seems that slad and Searcher don't perceive things that way and continue fairly tenaciously trying to engage. I don't want to and will not. I wish they would accept this. Slim, I understand is changing in certain ways- which I won't claim to fully understand, so I'll let him be his own person and represent his own stance for himself.
All that said, I'm going to continue having opinions that are going to rub some people here the wrong way, for sure. I object to the efforts to forge a conspiracy consensus as "of course we're all partisans for Putin's Russia", for example. I'm much more critical of the big powers generally and for grassroots anarcho-left efforts instead. I'm also deeply troubled by the role of the far right in conspiracy culture and will continue to be. I am not a right wing person in much of any way and my posts will reflect this but this is an anti-fascist board, right?
Other than that, I will have some other pet peeves that may rankle, such as the conflation of spirituality with racism and fantastic assertions in conspiracy circles, which a given individual may or may not like but that's why we have the "ignore" function.
It's occurring to me that this here is an opening for the insertion of endless invective about other opinions of mine that a given poster may strenuously object to. Spare us, please. Yes, I have opinions that you disagree with. The world will keep spinning just the same. Don't forget that we do all have an "ignore" option.