I understand you more than you might realize, hava. Empathy of experience does not override entrained distrust and fierce autonomy.
Most MC victims are very wary of one another for the very valid reason that victims themselves are "turned" and programmed to prey upon one another - even involving the creation of reporting alters who can arise to undermine the victim from within. Paranoia is the passport to their predicament and a permanent perspective that is still perversely protective.
Victims used as programmed operatives can easily become handlers and controllers either externally directed or as Stockholm Syndrome-style supplicants obedient to embedded authority programming.
Your example of abused sisters illustrates similar inter-victim dynamics. Yet it still does not justify the criticism, comparison or competitive conflict that was contrived completely as a construct for argument with LilyPatToo. No-one is trying to disarm, diffuse nor edit/censor your points. They are appreciated information, input and insight from a survivor's perspective. But they need not be presented against false and perjorative projections upon another valued poster here. They can stand by themselves on their own merit, as you do, and as LilyPatToo does well.
In the larger context of the role of Israel and Jewry generally in mc history and proportional participation by ethnic and nation populations, I suspect we agree that the controllers have concentrated therein.
One of our childhood friends went from Kibbutz to the Israeli Army to what we suspect is The Mossad, while another mutual close friend from the same Temple trained as a medical doctor and became a psychiatrist and corporate professional in a Middle Eastern-based global conglomerate that has since been accused of electronic espionage across worldwide telecommunications and internet security. We were all likely mc victims as kids together and, in that respect, were probably programmed by the same evil masters. Our roles and politics today couldn't be more disparate but we secretly and silently share the lost autonomy as living links in a chain of corruption that can be triggered and yanked to kneel and heel in service to another's will - even to the point of attacking each other. More likely we reinforce the same regimes from diverse outposts, yet when we get together we know without voicing our anarchy that we remain united in common outrage over our shared plight. But to no avail. We still can't trust one another. We have trouble trusting ourselves.
Magnify our relationship to that of nations caught up in international intrigue but unable to untangle conflicting loyalties and obligations and roles, both overt and covert, inner-directed and externally manipulated. Whatever common bond and friendship once existed, and may still have vestigal value to us, especially as victims, no longer works in pragmatic practice for practical survival within admittedly corrupt systems.
Yet we can still quietly commune a sense of conscience and shared purpose to - one day - punish our persecutors and the perpetrators. And we can continue to try to do so without publicly eviscerating one another.
Outwardly, like you, we are fiercely individualistic and autonomous - and highly defensive of our remaining rights and righteousness. But we know the real enemy is not out in the open with us, and that attacking each other in the open forum only serves those sociopaths pulling our strings.