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Naw, ya know what?

Postby Maddy » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:16 pm

This is all why I left here in the first place.

RI is the good ol' boys club, no tits allowed (unless we're willing to suck it - or perhaps them! - up). Clearly discussion of any sort that threatens the boys' points of view can't be had, and any attempts to engage in communication beyond what the boys want to hear is going to be met with failure (re: futile frustration); much less attempting to let them know any part of a woman's experience.

Its all our fault you know, original sin, ate the apple, etc. virgin/whore... whatnot.

This is why I burned out and quit with the feminism thing. Its a useless and futile task. You can't teach men anything, just like you can't change the world. The only way around it is to simply not engage with them, and pull your own little world together as best as you can, as individuals.

I'm outta here.

Have fun, boys.
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby WakeUpAndLive » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:18 pm

Maddy wrote:This is all why I left here in the first place.

RI is the good ol' boys club, no tits allowed (unless we're willing to suck it - or perhaps them! - up). Clearly discussion of any sort that threatens the boys' points of view can't be had, and any attempts to engage in communication beyond what the boys want to hear is going to be met with failure (re: futile frustration); much less attempting to let them know any part of a woman's experience.

Its all our fault you know, original sin, ate the apple, etc. virgin/whore... whatnot.

This is why I burned out and quit with the feminism thing. Its a useless and futile task. You can't teach men anything, just like you can't change the world. The only way around it is to simply not engage with them, and pull your own little world together as best as you can, as individuals.

I'm outta here.

Have fun, boys.


I apologize for adding to this notion you feel. Best of luck in life.
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby Searcher08 » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:20 pm

You sound very resigned, Maddy?
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby WakeUpAndLive » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:29 pm

Searcher08 wrote:You sound very resigned, Maddy?


I feel disheartened reading about her opinion of mans inability to change.
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby Canadian_watcher » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:33 pm

Maddy wrote:This is all why I left here in the first place.

RI is the good ol' boys club, no tits allowed (unless we're willing to suck it - or perhaps them! - up). Clearly discussion of any sort that threatens the boys' points of view can't be had, and any attempts to engage in communication beyond what the boys want to hear is going to be met with failure (re: futile frustration); much less attempting to let them know any part of a woman's experience.

Its all our fault you know, original sin, ate the apple, etc. virgin/whore... whatnot.

This is why I burned out and quit with the feminism thing. Its a useless and futile task. You can't teach men anything, just like you can't change the world. The only way around it is to simply not engage with them, and pull your own little world together as best as you can, as individuals.

I'm outta here.

Have fun, boys.


I second that.

Have your board, guys. To the ladies: you are much more tolerant than I.
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby WakeUpAndLive » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:42 pm

Canadian_watcher wrote:I second that.

Have your board, guys. To the ladies: you are much more tolerant than I.


Good now we can fuck up the planet even more without all your intervention!
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby barracuda » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:44 pm

WakeUpandLive, you really need to ShutUpandListen for a while. Take some time to think about it.
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby waugs » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:50 pm

such sweeping, presumptive statements about people with different genitalia than you...
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby Project Willow » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:55 pm

waugs wrote:such sweeping, presumptive statements about people with different genitalia than you...


What, you already run the world, you got to rub our noses in it when we say we're unhappy about it?

.......

Please don't leave me here alone women!
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby Iamwhomiam » Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:59 pm

Well, that's just sad, Maddy. And Canadian_watcher too?

There were primarily three problematic and dense males that extended a misogyny thread to 83 pages, something that could or should have been expected. And now you condemn all of us and leave? Please don't go.

I'm sure I'm not the only male here who appreciates reading your viewpoints, Maddy, or yours, C_w.

Please reconsider!

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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby Jeff » Fri Apr 29, 2011 7:04 pm

WakeUpAndLive's account has been suspended by Barracuda for trolling.

Also, I deserve to have my account suspended for being an absentee slumlord. I apologize.

Maddy and Canadian_watcher, please reconsider.
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby Project Willow » Fri Apr 29, 2011 7:06 pm

Iamwhomiam wrote:Don't let yourself get wet today from yesterday's rain.


I like that. I think even though it was incredibly painful, things ended alright yesterday but I can see how various events today added insult layer #102 to injury.
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby Nordic » Fri Apr 29, 2011 7:06 pm

Hey, ladies, dont run off! Dont let a few bad apples wreck your experience here. Please. I really like both of you guys, C_W and Maddy both, I really REALLY like the two of you and I would really hate to see you go.

Ive been avoiding the misogyny thread on purpose, for the very reason that I sensed there was a lot of acrimony in there, and previously when I posted in there, I felt that no matter what I said, I was inadvertently hurting people, which is something I hate to do, I mean HATE to do.

My point being that I haven't seen what has been going on in there, but WUAL is gone now, FWIW, and I'm thinking maybe that thread should just get locked, if this is the affect its having.

Let's all just relax and take a deep breath and get back to being friends, can we?

Hell, I fight with my wife sometimes, but we're still married. Still love each other.
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby waugs » Fri Apr 29, 2011 7:07 pm

Project Willow wrote:
waugs wrote:such sweeping, presumptive statements about people with different genitalia than you...


What, you already run the world, you got to rub our noses in it when we say we're unhappy about it?

.......

Please don't leave me here alone women!



yes, you're right. me and every other guy on here "runs the world". :wallhead:
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Re: Naw, ya know what?

Postby Nordic » Fri Apr 29, 2011 7:10 pm

waugs wrote:
Project Willow wrote:
waugs wrote:such sweeping, presumptive statements about people with different genitalia than you...


What, you already run the world, you got to rub our noses in it when we say we're unhappy about it?

.......

Please don't leave me here alone women!



yes, you're right. me and every other guy on here "runs the world". :wallhead:



Waugs why don't you just back off? Doesn't this fit into the validation thread? They're angry for a reason, let em be angry. They're good people.
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