Fascism: What exactly is it and how do you recognize it?

I would like to have a real, honest RI discussion about fascism, what it is and how you can recognize it. A lot of people like to throw that term around and even suggest America is or is becoming a fascist state. How do we know that to be true, what do you see in America today or coming in the future that makes you believe it is headed towards fascism and how does the average person, in simple layman's terms recognize it, what can we or will we see, in our everyday lives, if this is or is becoming a fascist state? How does fascism differ from communism?
Discuss and please provide simple easy to understand examples so that a 5 year old would be able to understand exactly what fascism is, once that is established we can move on to the more difficult aspects of it.
I will start with the common wiki definition of what fascism is and we can build on that:
From wiki:
This definition, while a good one, is complex and vague so lets dumb it down and make it more digestible and talk about real world actual experiences that one can expect in a fascist state.
Discuss and please provide simple easy to understand examples so that a 5 year old would be able to understand exactly what fascism is, once that is established we can move on to the more difficult aspects of it.
I will start with the common wiki definition of what fascism is and we can build on that:
From wiki:
Fascism ( /ˈfæʃɪzəm/) is a radical authoritarian nationalist political ideology.[1][2] Fascists seek elevation of their nation based on commitment to an organic national community where its individuals are united together as one people in national identity. They are united by suprapersonal connections of ancestry and culture through a totalitarian state that seeks the mass mobilization of a nation through discipline, indoctrination, physical training, and eugenics.[3][4] Fascism seeks to eradicate perceived foreign influences that are deemed to be causing degeneration of the nation or of not fitting into the national culture.[5]
This definition, while a good one, is complex and vague so lets dumb it down and make it more digestible and talk about real world actual experiences that one can expect in a fascist state.