peartreed » Sat Feb 16, 2019 11:09 pm wrote:I’m curious about what other people here think are the reasons for the prevalence of such uncivil behavior, rude commentary, aggressive acrimony and personal insult on the forum threads, especially of late. Is it the protective anonymity of the author used as a cover?
Do we disregard any imperative for considerate conduct simply because we can? Would our conduct change if our real identities were openly disclosed to everyone?
We were all raised with varying degrees of religious education where the common precept was love for one another, or at least a set of commandments or precepts as protocols for respectful social considerations and interactions. Schooling was similarly set upon principles of proper civil conduct in personal, family and community relations to enhance positive relationships and supportive coexistence. Even our recreation and entertainment involved media and stories promoting chivalry, saviors, heroes, good guys, idols and superhero capes. Especially later, in business, we had to learn the importance of positive cooperation with others the hard way.
So how is it that otherwise well-bred, intelligent and mature, presumably gentle souls turn so sour and sadistic online?
I’ve noted the numerous insults, sarcasm, sneering and denigration aimed at several contributors here and have particularly been disgusted by the shots at SLAD and HS from insensitive, self-proclaimed intellectuals who otherwise show some manly traits.
I wonder if the insensitivity is a personal, psychological handicap from upbringing adversity or just an ignorant disregard for any critics daring to challenge strongly-held beliefs. Or is it all simply a reflection of changing, deteriorating culture of self, of egoism, where impact on others is of no importance to the pursuit of “winning”.
I also wonder why moderation is no longer practiced as a modifier of objectionable extremes, especially amongst favoured friends.
If Trump can rise to the presidency I suppose being a rude, crude egomaniac works, but have we also lost our social conscience in our pursuit of posting popularity, group acceptance or personal predominance?
The archives, if ever activated, might become, instead, at this rate, a Hall of Shame.