Let me clarify a bit here.
Why should the standard be lowered to that of which they oppose? Why even come close to saying stupid crap like "kick'em" or we will only be civil when we "win"? If this board, or any other forum or activist group has a desire to make positive change then don't lower yourself to the same crap that the alt-right and far right of the GOP has been doing for years. We can all make long lists of extremists doing dumb, evil and cruel things. I specifically made a point to include an example of where an extreme wacko shot the Arizona rep. Giffords was shot to demonstrate I was not painting a picture that either extreme ends of the spectrum are correct. They are not. The extremes of most things usually end up bad.
Fact is that this board should have more sense to realize that lowering your standards to that of those you consider the enemy is not good. Why is that hard to comprehend? The knee-jerk reactions always turn into a list of tit-for-tat flame war of "well they are doing it too or are much worse." No shit, there are plenty of asshole idiots out there doing bad stuff. Why in the hell even go to the point of trying to justify even more bad behavior or create rhetoric that doesn't advance the cause?
It's funny how when someone makes a point to say let's consider elevating the discussion and finds an example of what should NOT be going gets attacked and the cliche replies make reference to Nazis. Yeah, anybody who doesn't agree with all posters on RI is a Nazi or Nazi sympathizer.
I'm not asking anybody to be perfect, I'm far from it. I don't come to this board preaching solutions and claiming to be a pseudo intellectual, perfect citizen or anything remotely close. I come here for information, viewpoints on what others seek and a tiny bit for entertainment value of outlandish crazy shit that people here find that is of esoteric interest. Civil discussions can and should allow for opposing viewpoints, or at the very least consider perspectives that aren't opposing but find errors in agenda, rhetoric, movements, trends etc... What the hell is so wrong with suggesting that conversation not include suggestions of kicking, assaulting etc??? Even if Holder wasn't suggesting actually assaulting people, which he wasn't if you read the entire dialogue, there is no need to lower the standards. If anything being on the right side of things means have higher standards. If we're going to make change or help bring along people into making positive change in society then showing better examples is necessary.
Think of it like raising children. Are kids going to be better off seeing examples where the adults in the room are screaming with out of control emotions having hysterical breakdowns? Or are they seeing adults that have civil, thoughtful discussions that weigh all sides of things and seek to be more inclusive? The overall hysteria in the U.S. right now is pretty disgusting. Almost all political discussions turn into screaming matches. An open palm and consideration of other's ideas and perspectives is required to bring more people into what I think most of you, and myself want for our country. I personally like to explore different perspectives, which is why for years I had a subscription to The Nation. Actually my parents paid for it as a gift as they encouraged me to have a broad base of ideas. I don't bother reading about the latest rhetoric from alt-right nut jobs because they are obviously... nut jobs. Besides, AD supplies enough stuff here to last a lifetime and one doesn't need to taint your web browser with much more than he supplies. In high school my history teacher quietly gave me a copy of the Communist Manifesto to read. Some classmates found out and ridiculed me to the point where just by chance at an athletic event my father overheard some of the bullshit they were saying calling me a communist that he intervened and shut them down. He was a pretty thoughtful man that encouraged a broad education and wanted me to learn as much as I could. I've even gone back to reading more about Marxism lately because I was curious why Jack was so defensive and supportive economic models that seemingly have failed over and over. I'm not a fan of "communism" in the general sense of how it's defined in pop culture, but certainly have a interest is alternative ways in which people can exist that brings about higher standards of living, better education, higher wages and safer work environments. In my youth I worked some seriously shitty jobs that were dangerous and paid incredibly bad hourly wages. My son recently had a job that was very dangerous and was at risk easily losing life or limb. I've encouraged him to stay away from those jobs and helped educate him on what types of companies are good to work for and which are not. At the same time making sure he heard why there needs to be OHSHA, the EPA etc....so that companies don't run amuck. He hears plenty from his mother's side of the family about the opposite, as well as racial slurs and other shitty things that civil, decent people should not be saying.
Get off the high horse Jack and Jerky, we are neighbors in the virtual sense. I don't always agree with what you say and we're not "comrades," but I don't consider you enemies. If anything I consider you to be thoughtful individuals that I agree with on many, but not all things. Maybe this OP should have been under the rhetoric thread. At this point it's not worth advancing this much further if people aren't able to have discussions without the usually dog whistle Nazi association crap.
Go back to the OP and click on the MC Yogi link to their song about change. Then ask yourself, would a Nazi sympathizer listen to that and believe in the lyrics?