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erosoplier wrote:compared2what? wrote:On an unrelated note/Elsewhere in capitalism,*** white-collar low- or middle-management jobs are not so very cushy. The people who do them are not pampered, spoiled, or favored. Those assertions had been made. They were incorrect. So I was addressing that.
Compared to most blue collar jobs, and especially to most unwanted unemployment, white-collar low- or middle-management jobs are totally very cushy. I don't see how this can be a controversial claim to make. Of course it depends on what you're capable of, and what you prefer, and the exact job in question, but I've been unemployed, I've worked in a factory, I've got a kind of white collar job right now, and I am friends with some spoilt whiney public servants: I think most white collar jobs are cushy compared to the alternatives. This isn't an assertion, this is an observation based upon my experience.![]()
Stephen Morgan wrote:In my role as a member of the proletariat I don't come across a lot of feminists, I'll tell you that. feminism is a fundamentally middle-class movement.
Astonishing as it may seem, my relations with women are quite satisfactory. Not ones that work in the jobcentre, of course, but women I know in my everyday life (the jobcentre need only be attended every fortnight).
someone: (my doubt is running out of benefits)
Try faith in stead.
JackRiddler: Hey, Morgan: Was Margaret Fucking Thatcher your mom? Cos' I think that might just be bad enough to explain your issues.
A greater insult it would be hard to imagine.
erosoplier: The question is, should we be gearing up to fight [i]males, or should we be gearing up to fight [/i]patriarchy? How many women live beside and directly benefit from those "derivatives traders who created the trillions-bubble that the taxpayers are now shovelling endless trillions into a bottomless pit to "cover""? And the millions of males scratching out an existence for themselves and their families in third world nations - are they somehow in on all this Wall Street chicanery?
If "patriarchy" means "capitalism", then I believe it exists and is worth fighting, however it would then be nonsensical to call it patriarchy rather than capitalism. If patriarchy is a male system persecuting females, it doesn't exist. If it's a system of the rich persecuting the poor, it's capitalism, not patriarchy. Might seem like nit-picking, semantics and the aforementioned presecriptivism, but the language we use influences our thoughts. If we call it capitalism, the enemy is capitalists, the controllers of money. If we call it patriarchy, the enemy is patriarchs, fathers, who are not in reality the enemy.
wintler: Sales is sometimes whitecollar and is physically cushy, but it corrupts the soul.
Being rich, or abusive, or any number of other things, corrupt your soul. That doesn't mean you aren't the privleged one.
c2w: Working in a white-collar low- or middle-management job of the kind we're using as examples is really not so very cushy.
It's not a question of absolute cushyness, but what is more or less cushy than what else.
when they're on the phone if they're not exhibiting enough signs of stress and misery to make it clear at a glance that they're not spending two minutes on -- [i]gasp -- a personal call. [/i]
Of course if you're digging a ditch all day there aren't likely to be many available phone lines.
m also not in the mood to hear about how men are victimized by the false rape claims of women, even in passing
You never are, and I'm never in the mood to hear that you're still ignoring the conclusive evidence that this is a common thing. I was, in this case, merely hoping we could agree that when it happens it's bad. And, ideally, not because it makes it harder for real victims to come forward, but for the simple reason that a man may be wrongfully imprisoned for a long time.
OP ED: if my choices are seemingly a) starve now or b) starve later after helping others starve now; then frankly, i think i want another option.
That's rather my point, dear. I would like to see the nationalisation of the natural monopolies and so forth as much as anyone, but it can only happen through a mass movement. Feminist is one of the leading, probably the leading, obstacles to the formation of such a movement. For as long as normal women see themselves firstly as disadvantaged relative to men, rather than to the rich (or even specifically to rich women if that's easiest for them to relate too, I don't say), then no unified movement in opposition to oppression can be formed.
why is it okay to eat people because they're rich?
what about their rich kids? can we eat them too?
No, but we can assign them housing on a sink estate after their worldly goods have been confiscated for the greater good. Apart from you opposition to class warfare (by the poor) I largely agree. Oh, and I don't consider my words "ultra misogyny", but that's neither here nor there.
c2w: Does anyone doubt that if "they" = Jews, Arabs, Muslims, Christians, blacks, illegal immigrants, alien abductees, RA survivors, members of the GLBT community, Alex Jones fans, or -- in short -- pretty much any class of people on earth besides women (with the possible exception of Democrats), I'd be looking at 14 pages of flame instead of at a half-dozen dispassionate, okay-bored-now posts?
But those are birth groups, or in the case of abductees immigrants and RA survivors, victims. They haven't chosen to be what they are. Feminists have, if only after thorough brain washing. As I've made quite clear women aren't my targets, only those who put themselves in the same classification as those other mostly male groups, occupation soldiers, bailiffs and so forth. I really don't like bailiffs.
Feminists are an ideology.
Also I'm not sure you've been paying attention, I haven't noticed an unwarranted degree of support for my positionings.
Also, for the record, I am not merely evil, verminous scum.
I decline to make value judgements about fellow forum members, pal.
me, apparently: Of course they don't constitute the ruling class of society, they are merely evil, verminous, scum....although their power is not their own but that of their masters.
Yes, the first part of that was aimed specifically at the people in the immediately preceding sentence, ie the people who work in jobcentres who would be my first targets if I became a spree killer. I probably won't though. Gun control, you know. Killing people with a bicycle pump is just too slow, the police turn up and your potential victims flee rather than being killed quickly in a burst of lead.
The last bit, of course, applies to all groups intermediate between the powerful elites and the potentially revolutionary masses.
Stephen Morgan wrote:erosoplier: Stephen, you can’t let the fact that this world is run wrong stop you from getting what is rightfully yours.
Of course, but it's also unacceptable to go down to the level of the thief, embezzler or entrepreneur and grub around for anything I can sequester for myself at the expense of society.
If modern relations with women are wrong, duly note it, but focus on cultivating proper relations with women. It’s all you can do, really.
Astonishing as it may seem, my relations with women are quite satisfactory. Not ones that work in the jobcentre, of course, but women I know in my everyday life (the jobcentre need only be attended every fortnight).
You’ll have to make compromises, but you alone will be the biggest loser if you don’t make some unsavoury compromises here and there.
I'd much rather be a loser than a sell-out. After all, if the game is rigged taking part becomes acceptance of the unfair system, rather than fair engagement in competition. For me the ideal job would be as part of a non-repressive branch of the state, perhaps as a medical orderly in the NHS.
erosoplier: The question is, should we be gearing up to fight [i]males, or should we be gearing up to fight [/i]patriarchy? How many women live beside and directly benefit from those "derivatives traders who created the trillions-bubble that the taxpayers are now shovelling endless trillions into a bottomless pit to "cover""? And the millions of males scratching out an existence for themselves and their families in third world nations - are they somehow in on all this Wall Street chicanery?
If "patriarchy" means "capitalism", then I believe it exists and is worth fighting, however it would then be nonsensical to call it patriarchy rather than capitalism. If patriarchy is a male system persecuting females, it doesn't exist. If it's a system of the rich persecuting the poor, it's capitalism, not patriarchy. Might seem like nit-picking, semantics and the aforementioned presecriptivism, but the language we use influences our thoughts. If we call it capitalism, the enemy is capitalists, the controllers of money. If we call it patriarchy, the enemy is patriarchs, fathers, who are not in reality the enemy.
Project Willow wrote:STOP FEEDING THE ASSHOLE (troll). How f'n hard is that?
"The Myth of Female Masochism." Yeah, right.
barracuda wrote:Sorry if I threw a wrench in your process, OP ED. I was really just whispering my assent. I'm not one to flippantly diagnose illnesses of the mind based upon postings on anonymous boards like this one, but I recognise a real problem when I read it. I've known a few and had a few of my own, I guess. This one strikes me, though, as a disorder too common to merit much sympathy. Anyway, thanks for your thoughts upthread.
Project Willow wrote:STOP FEEDING THE ASSHOLE (troll). How f'n hard is that?
"The Myth of Female Masochism." Yeah, right.
Stephen Morgan wrote:c2w wrote:Also, for the record, I am not merely evil, verminous scum.
I decline to make value judgements about fellow forum members, pal.
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