My problem is with the astounding amount of disinformation, confabulation and confusion around it.
I think that the confusion around RA is inevitable given that survivors have had to try and make sense of what's going on without much help from researchers, policy-makers and law enforcement. Trying to get to the bottom of an abusive situation is challenging enough to anyone's mental health, let alone people who have been tortured, abused and manipulated since childhood. When we look at the consensus that's built up online around RA, I think we see a lot of survivors reproducing the claustrophobia and paranoia of the abusive subculture as they attempt to construct an understanding of their abuse.
It doesn't help that RA, organised abuse and child abuse in general is so marginal within the courts and the justice system. We can't use the courts as a forum to establish the array of crimes that are committed against children, from 'mundane' forms of abuse all the way to RA and organsed offences. Research demonstrates that the majority of reported sexual offences against children never make it to committal, the majority of those that do don't get prosecutions, and most child complainants are profoundly harmed in the process.
In the early days, social workers and psychs were naive about the criminal justice system - they thought that they could push RA cases through the courts. The RA cases of Jordan and McMartin were the first time in legal history that very young children took the stand, and they were the first to find out that the adversarial court room destroys kids pretty quickly. Those cases didn't collapse due to lack of evidence (as the denialists want us to believe) but because the justice system discriminates against children. This means that child abuse is easily contested by perpetrators both in the courts and in the media.
Interestingly, when organised and ritualistic child abuse occurs in black communities and developing (read: black) nations, it gets recognition and attention from the authorities. It's only when the same allegations arise in urban, white communities (e.g. under our noses) that the media and policy-makers start getting sceptical.
I'd love to find evidence for it that is so solid and unassailable that I could send the naysayers to it and save myself the grief of trying to get them to look at links that may be corrupted with disinfo.
But it's there. One of the most frustrating things about the RA debate is that unequivocable convictions for ritual abuse, like those of Paul Ingram, are not used by people like us to establish the reality of the crime.
Bizarrely enough, the denialists use Paul Ingram to "prove" that confession and convictions for ritual abuse
are proof that ritual abuse doesn't exist. It's ridiculous. He confessed to it, and Richard Ofshe's contention that he was innocent but "self-hypnotised" himself is so far-fetched that the judge rejected it point-blank. Ingram's own son showed up at his appeal in 1996 to insist that his father was a very dangerous man that needed to stay in jail! And yet the FMSFers and their ilk continue to claim he is innocent. The same strategy has been used to destabilise the conviction of Peter Ellis in New Zealand for the same crime, although the probity of the origina investigatino and conviction has been upheld multiple times.
And then, where undeniable evidence of organised and ritual abuse surfaces, like the Dutroux case in Belgium and the West case in Britain, the denialists just ignore it ... but we haven't done a good job at joining the dots either.
One of the most frustrating parts of it for me is that some of the survivors have (not unnaturally!) obsessed on it and are so deeply paranoid that they believe every single thing they read about it, completely uncritically.
The internet has been both a life-saver for survivors, as well as a massive dissemination vehicle for all kinds of bizarre theories. But, like I said before, if you've been sadistically abused since childhood, the notion that there's a secret global satanic government probably makes sense.