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AlicetheKurious wrote:My name is Alice. (HI, ALICE!) and I post too much. I spend far too much time reading others' posts as well. It's wreaked havoc with my life. I'm frequently late for appointments, my long-suffering husband and kids are stuck with KFC and Hardees for dinner at least once a week, I sleep way past my bedtime most nights, pretending I'm waiting 'for the drier to finish'; during the day, I hide the evidence of my addiction by pretending that "housework" takes up all my time, when I'm really mostly posting and reading. When I hear the kids' school bus or my husband's car, I slam my laptop shut, rush to the kitchen and start banging pots and pans, or grab a rag and start polishing furniture. I loudly complain that I never have any "me" time, but don't know if anyone buys it. I live in terror that everyone will find out what it is I really do all day. I'm out of control. Thank you.
Nordic wrote:KFC and Hardee's ..... in Egypt?
Or ... you're just joking ... right?
My son wants me to take him to the park. I'm sitting here typing this ...... what's that tell you?
Cordelia wrote:Hi, I'm Cordelia and I don't think I post too much; maybe I do but I don't post on any other sites (I'm forum monogamous) so if I do, I don't care. I do check, read others' posts and I'm on the internet and using my laptop far too much. I don't have television, but I don't read real books as much as I used too.
I have a chronic pain 'challenge' and, on a good day I feel like I've been hit by a truck; on a bad day, like yesterday, I think the truck backed up to finish the job. I'm very isolated, and, though I hope I'm supportive, generous, and I try not to judge people (except predators), there are few I trust, so virtual, anonymous, communication is a life-line for me. I call my laptop my bedtop because that's where I'm most comfortable. I'm surrounded by animal companions while I work/type and sometimes I flatter myself that they're my sentries (though they sleep on the job) and when they hear me log off the bedtop, they all rise and follow me like my private entourage. I know they don't judge my life-style.
On days when I'm particularly hard on myself for how I feel (because I HATE pity), I try to remind myself that I'm a veteran of a war most people (except here on RI, thank you) don't even know about and these are battle scars. Thanks for letting me share........
annie aronburg wrote:Nordic wrote:KFC and Hardee's ..... in Egypt?
Or ... you're just joking ... right?
My son wants me to take him to the park. I'm sitting here typing this ...... what's that tell you?
Nordic, you should take your enormous son to one of the educational protests in your city today.
There are a number of Hardees and Kentucky Frieds in the Cairo area, but if I ate chicken I'd go to the KFC run by the deaf.
It's in the Self Sufficiency forum. I'll be interested to see it.AlicetheKurious wrote:Where is that recipe thread? I want to post a recipe for a very nice and very typical Egyptian dessert.
Perelandra wrote:It's in the Self Sufficiency forum. I'll be interested to see it.AlicetheKurious wrote:Where is that recipe thread? I want to post a recipe for a very nice and very typical Egyptian dessert.
AlicetheKurious wrote:I'm out of here for a while, and will come back whenever, if ever.
AlicetheKurious wrote:I'm out of here for a while, and will come back whenever, if ever. It's hard to think ahead. I have been posting here too much, I think, and feel very tired. Thank you to members, past and present, who have been so very kind, and an even bigger thank you to those who have stimulated my thinking and opened my eyes to so many important things that I otherwise would not have known. Especially the White Rabbit himself, aka Jeff.
This is a good chance to get a few small things off my chest: first, an apology to Byrne; I've felt very guilty ever since I responded rudely to you in this thread; I know it's a small thing, but you certainly didn't deserve it and it's niggled at me. Second, I've wanted to thank Peregrine for that lovely Bach piece that you posted in the "what are you listening to right now?" thread. I downloaded it and it now forms an integral part of my kitchen music repertoire, inspiring me and encouraging me to take my time so that I produce good food. Third, I want to say that it's also a small thing, but I was more discouraged by Joe's "friendly" characterization of what I wrote as "shit" than I was with all the nonsense spewed by what's-his-face. No biggie, but it suddenly struck me as ridiculous to devote so much time and energy to communicate something when all that gets through is "shit" that can be summarized in two or three words.
Nordic, you seem like such a sweet person; also, it's been interesting to follow how your thinking and knowledge have evolved since you first came to RI. I wish you all the best and will pray that everything works out for you and your family. What I've written here is not unique: all the information is available, I did nothing more than post it here, or in some cases connect some dots. You could do the same. Anybody could, and I hope more people do.
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