Canadian_watcher wrote:
The real real point (and yes I know how hippie dippie this sounds but it honestly could be real if we had a great enough consensus) but the real point is that this IS a game ... it is an illusion that we are ALL participating in. I've canceled my subscription but until enough people do it all it amounts to is that I don't get the up to date fashions in my mailbox anymore. That's enough for me, honestly since I can't let myself imagine that the rest of the world is going to help me make it a reality anymore. But I sure do wish my kid wasn't going to have to live through this level of disillusionment. She is though. Oh, she certainly is.
Why? Because lattes are delicious and scandal is titilating and the idea of fame is seductive and hero worship is contagious and even if you're hip to the falsity of the American Dream it doesn't mean that you have given up on the idea of American Democracy which whispers to you that all is fair ... all is right in the world as long as A, B and C happen.
We gotta stop thinking that we are only missing A, B or C and realize that we're up to our asses in all of the letters of the alphabet and the one ingredient that is missing is integrity. GodDamn integrity.. it's what makes you NOT do some of the easy bullshit you could do to win a fight or get a few more dollars or get off or feel important when you don't deserve to. Integrity is what allows you to produce goods in your own land even IF it means they are more expensive, and it is what propels you to BUY those goods even it if means you can only have ONE of them rather than two or three. It is what tells you that having three staff is better than having two staff, it is what tells you that your kid needs to learn to lose that baseball game so that he knows what that feels like, it's how it feels to allow your addict kid to go homeless, it is what tells you that you do NOT sell a stock in a pension fund short just because it'll give you returns elsewhere, etc etc.
Anderson Cooper isn't the PROBLEM. the PROBLEM is our collective lack of integrity that we promote these douchebags and then look up to them.
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Good points to keep in mind while considering the mess we're in. It's much more helpful to think of our problems in the context you've presented (ie, society's problems stemming from a lack of integrity on the individual level) than to think of all our problems being the result of a grand conspiracy, perpetrated by an all-powerful "they", and probably much more realistic too. I don't think any single person, or group of people, is really in control of this thing anyways, this mess we're in has kind of taken on a life of its own. Our main problem is, as you pointed out, a series of greedy, fear-based decisions being made by too many people, from every spectrum of life. No doubt there are evil men and woman in this world plotting and conspiring, but it is against our interests to place all the blame on them. They have only the power that we give them; we only help them by falling for the belief that everything that goes on in this world is part of their design. This has the effect of creating an aura of omnipotence about them that I don't believe really exists.