Sometimes I wonder if that is ever truly possible and the only things that separates one person from the next is either the size of the faction they have amassed behind them, within which they can retreat and convince each other that they have the higher ground or else the instance of one party admitting defeat.
Sounder » Mon Feb 24, 2014 9:56 am wrote:Any narrative will have shortcomings, all future ones included, however it is still open for us to create (realize, if you are a Platonist) a narrative that at the least replaces coercion as the central driver.
I
know that at we
can do that.
I have, to a significant degree in my own life, and the effects are nothing short of wonderful.
I just want to take a moment and examine the word coercion to get a better understanding of this situation.
Allow me to go through some definitions of the word. I am using Merriam-Webster dictionary as my resource.
First, Coercion:
":the act, process, or power of coercing"
That doesn't get us too far. Let's move deeper through the meaning of the word coercing:
"1
: to restrain or dominate by force <religion in the past has tried to coerce the irreligious — W. R. Inge>
2
: to compel to an act or choice <was coerced into agreeing>
3
: to achieve by force or threat <coerce compliance>"
This seems much more promising. But just to get to the bottom of these things, lets move a little deeper still. This definition seems to hinge on the notion of force, so we will move on through this definition:
": physical strength, power, or effect
: power or violence used on a person or thing
: strength or power that is not physical"
This gives some food for thought. Let's work with the first definition. physical strength, power,
or effect. Well the word effect might seem to easy, so instead we'll move deeper into the definition of power.
": the ability or right to control people or things
: political control of a country or area
: a person or organization that has a lot of control and influence over other people or organizations"
Now we might be getting at something downright devious. The ability (or right) to
control other people (or things). For the sake of thoroughness, let's get right to the bottom of this and try to secure our grasp upon this term of control:
": to direct the behavior of (a person or animal) : to cause (a person or animal) to do what you want
: to have power over (something)
: to direct the actions or function of (something) : to cause (something) to act or function in a certain way"
This is actually quite a lot to think about. Let's isolate two of these definitions for the sake of example:
": to cause (a person or animal) to do what you want"
and
": to cause (something) to act or function in a certain way"
To cause (a person, animal or something) to act or function in a certain way, or in the way you want. How do we do that exactly? Perhaps there are many ways of doing it. Maybe one of the way is through words, maybe through convincing them? Just to be sure, maybe we should take an added journey into the definition of the word convince:
": to cause (someone) to believe that something is true
: to cause (someone) to agree to do something"
To cause, so far that agrees with the definition above of control, how about the second parts "to believe that something is true" and "to agree to do something"... I wonder, does that reconcile with "to do something you want" and "to act or function in a certain way"?
Maybe I'm going off in all sorts of directions, but I wonder, what is it exactly we are doing when we are having conversations and expressing our (particularly differing) points of view?
Sounder » Mon Feb 24, 2014 9:56 am wrote:Any narrative will have shortcomings, all future ones included, however it is still open for us to create (realize, if you are a Platonist) a narrative that at the least replaces coercion as the central driver.
I
know that at we
can do that.
I have, to a significant degree in my own life, and the effects are nothing short of wonderful.
So you mean that you don't use words to convince someone of your point of view? Wow, that is nothing short of wonderful.
You know, I have been thinking of something you said in one of your earlier posts:
You know what, you really have proven to me what the moral high ground is. I have got to start taking pointers from you.
...
No, let me be frank. The difference between me and you is that if I am setting out to convince people I am going to be open about it. I am not going to hide the fact that I am using tactics by spinning words:
Of course, you weren't being obscurantist, you were being "idiosyncratic"... Whatever you want to believe.
Yes, I am trying to convince you, "coerce" you if you would have it that way. Here I am everybody, see me as I truly am.