I had a look at the educationforum Board Rules and was struck by the lack of tolerance for a lack of civility.
http://educationforum.ipbhost.com/index.php?showtopic=16940I read it and mulled over it. Initially it seemed a little draconian, then I realised that there were big differences as well:
* they have a very hands-on Board Admin (ours has departed) and a
* team of MODS (we have Willow).
I mulled these over and think, In spite of these differences, it might be worth looking at them
(I am putting them in Quote boxes and Boldening headings for clarity)
When I think back to so many of the (ultimately extremely NON-productive) conflicts that have taken place over here, for myself many of them arose from the growth of a board culture over a long period where civility has been taking a long slow arcing downward dive.
I think there is still time to change course - when I looked a couple of days ago, a large number of individual posters and sets of posters were engaged in 'virtual fistfights' with 'board opponents' In random order
Brekin, Alice, Stefano, Jack Riddler, Spiro, Solace, Seemslikeadream, American Dream, jakell, Sounder, minme, Nordic, slimmouse, Rory, Searcher
Many (though not all) of these came down to the domain of civility.
Food for thought?
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